But if the dog finally turned around and bit you then, would you think, simply because it hadn't done so before, that it came out of nowhere? He wrote back and we exchanged a few messages after that, but I am just so confused as to what is going on in that head of his. Have a Beautiful Daughter to the last of the 3 Loves. This is #1 for a reason. We r used to flirting a lot, admit we like eachother but he has a girlfriend -- one that treats him awful and he knows it. Or he "ghosts" and just disappears. He has broken up with me last week . He assumed that I was online at 4 am in the morning because my messenger said I was active. Tsurugi:I'm killed nee-san. As I write this, I see how silly, stupid and ridiculous and wacky I must seem to anyone who reads this. He did ask me many Time to come see him at the Gigs but i never went until last June. If I ask him to be with me he says let's end this as I m too demanding and impatient . What's holding you back guys? but what actually is he doing? There is also a stereotype that Geminis are two face and airy, which is usually exaggerated negatively by others. How could he just not think of me at all for 3 weeks, and then randomly text me like nothing was wrong?! They are very secretive about their feelings but not for bad reasons. I hope this advice helps. In fact he ended the wonderful relationship we had because he says he needs to think of whether or not he wants kids and family or not. My Scorpio and I have been dating 3 1/2 months. 2023 The Arena Media Brands, LLC and respective content providers on this website. So when he is thinking about you, it is all about you. I have determined that a Scorpio's withdrawal usually has one of five causes (though there may be more I have not yet discovered): He is in a situation that he has mixed emotions about and is acting distant until he sorts it out in his heart. This is the only way to defend himself or apologize. When a Scorpio feels something, their feelings Run deep and it seems really difficult for them to open up at first. I haven't called to see what's happening etc I'm just going to go do my own thing and let him be. & i saw him posts in other social app . On the same note, don't let Scorpio's bad reputation lead you to misjudge someone. They will care about you if your part of that inner circle. But about the roller coaster deals we will always love u and sometimes we don't mean to hurt your feelings. I reciprocate but I don't take things to heart. (sometimes, not always, but sometimes, it's a flat our lie, esp. To be honest, I struggle with my inner feelings and thoughts regularly and, struggle to come to terms with them let alone trying to explain them. They might cause drama with all their loved ones, and set their life on fire. I am a pisces. He keeps an eye on you in a caring and protective way Have you noticed your Scorpio man secretly glancing over at you or his glances drifting across the office looking for you? This page really helped, Kris. Understanding him 2. Then we didn't talk much about what happened except I had asked him if he's testing me subconsciously and he said that maybe but he's not sure. I seem to be making all the efforts in the relationship . Some people may take that as being taken for granted, but I guess all I can say is, if that bothers you, talk about it. Remember there arent only 12 kinds of people in this world !! 5 He enjoys private, romantic dates. so, i tried and most of our convrsation will go down to sex. If you do that, your scorp will notice with his freakish Empathic ways and it WILL make him want you way more! I am the kind of Libra female who craves attention and if I don't hear from my Scorpio for ONE day - I begin to freak out and go back and forth - he loves me, he loves me not. He could disappeared for about 3-4 days without even telling anything. And then. Scorpio men and intensity go hand-in-hand. And if you told a certain girl that you like her very much or that she's special, does it mean your'e developing feelings for her already? He says back I like you too etc Then I said he was confusing me what did he want and he replies with its not going to workout. Never expect him to change for you, even if he loves you a lot. will ask you 100 personal questions but won't tell you much about themselves, can rev from 0 to 100 in a matter of seconds but may let off the gas just as fast (they will likely be the one to determine the speed of a new relationship), when they finally find "The One", they love them with every fiber of their being, can hold a grudge for years but is also capable of deep healing work, tender forgiveness, and bringing dark wounds to the light, will take the time to understand their partner to their core and nurture them accordingly, wants it their way and has a hard time compromising, ignites the spark of a twin flame relationship you'll never forget, although they might instigate many fights within the relationship, they will also fight for the relationship when it needs saving. I seem to have trouble with expressing my feelings in an non emotional way, I do not like to hurt peoples feelings or burden them and, can let build up to an point and then either pull away or confront, normally in an an aggressive type manner, because dont really like confrontation. Boyfriend lives in Arizona so communication is a big problem but we do get together on occasion and it is spectacular. I'm so lost please help. It makes them feel like they are not important enough to hear what you have to say about how you feel. Then when they already knew it's sign of love, they trick their mind assuming the object isn't feel the same, again, to avoid disappointment. Anyway, before he explained why he didnt want to come to Christmas with me he just said (I like to stay in and do nothing) like I said my feelings got hurt and I was quiet maybe even a bit distant and cold. Part of me was over the moon with joy, but another part of me wanted to yell at him! All it comes down to is whether hes a nice guy and whether both of you treat each other right, if not then end the relationship and move on (irrespective of whether or not hes a Scorpio and whatever your sunsign is ) . They infer by the expressions of your face what one would call mind readings. because both times I had said something that was questioning if I'll leave him he would want to end it first. when he shuts down on me and not text me after all I do for him it hurts my feelings and I do talk to him about it but he does not let me know what is going on the reason why he does this. He's angry. He is royally pissed off, and instead of lashing out, he has decided to spare you his vindictive tongue. 1. There are no gentle touches. 9) He plays the blame game. I am the type that gets smothered when a guy is constantly blowing the messages up or calling. 1. This article is accurate and true to the best of the authors knowledge. They tell it all on a website or brood about it. Yes, this is a scorpio, who claims to be in a homosexual relationship yet he's this possessive and jealous of me. I bet you he will not like it very much and now he knows how you feel. And so afraid that if I don't get a text every day, then he has stopped caring for me. He seldom wallows in envy or self-pity, and he doesn't happen to think that life owes him a single farthing. 10. Then I said I understand , you already made up your mind. I'm inlove with him and told him how I feel so he knows. I could never settle for less than the best so I guess I will be on my own with just great memories of him. He ignored my calls and texts for days and finally when he did hey back to me he said he can't commit to anything.. Then he blocked me! Said we must become friends b4 lovers. I guess he never was that interested after all. Here are ten tell-tale signs that your Scorpio man's feelings around the relationship are changing: 1. The Scorpio man is perfect in every way. Learn why the Scorpio in your life is withdrawn and seems distant. I met my Scorpio man in an online dating site on three weeks later and we fell in love within a few weeks into 2014. Have a life. The following are key pillars of any strong relationship, but these may need some extra attention when dating a Scorpio. This allows time for your Scorpio man to miss you. There is very little I expect and very little that fazes me but the moment I get the whiff of disloyalty I will stake out my game and take him down he will never come up. I can guarantee you one thing: a Scorpio waits. Get ready to be asked about your whereabouts and what you're doing at the moment. So the time comes to hang out a second time and he doesnt respond to me for like 4 hours after we agreed to meet and then started asking me if he could trust me/if I trust him. What it takes to keep a Scorpio man interested largely depends on where he's at in development as an individual. So, they can go on for a good while after things have cooled off quite a bit. Im a Capricorn so Im very hurt on the inside but Ill never show it outwardly. Is this the end? this morning when we went to my office he is very sweet. I have introduced him to a lot of couples with problems across the world and they have had good news Just thought I should share my experience because I strongly believe someone out there needs it You can email him through his email..dr_mack@ yahoo. I've been dating a scorpio man for 3 months. They have to prove to me and show me that they are who they say they are. Tsurugi remembered about flashback that he killed his sister and real tsurugi was pass out when scorpio transform into real tsurugi. It is so tough to leave him alone when he is in a funk but I hve 2 give him space or he will disappear. Tell him how you feel. All the time I have given them a real long rope and they have sadly tied it around their neck of their own accord. then when i texted him if he arrived to his work, he said yes. He'll especially spend time on things he's passionate about such as art, music, or even his career. I didn't take him serious. I feel he did this because he was hurt because I shared my problems with others instead of going to him, I know he cares for me? And when he's not, he's not. They would tell me they'd see me and try to say hi but I wouldn't notice them. Also, because he clams up, he'll never feel enough guilt to tell you that he's cheating on you. He doesn't care about what you think. Thank you. They have to so that they don't feel guilty about retaliating. We never added each other on Facebook but only snapchat cause he likes snapchat a lot. It was a little confusing but I don't take what people say to heart. Do you think he's just insecure about me leaving him first? I am always in doubt about our relationship longevity. Their fixed, feminine energy can come off as stubborn and reserved, but don't mistake their often quiet and secretive demeanor for passivity! i have told him early tht i'm looking more than just sex, but he said he prefers to go with the flow. Pretending everything is fine will only make him feel worse. I hope I helped!! Be honest cause hes very intuituve and can read you really well. A few times over the following three weeks, I came close to contacting him. He wants all your thoughts to be about him, even if he wont admit to it or consider you 'sticky'he derives deep pleasure form the mere idea that he may be dominating all of your thoughts. I guess it was probly #1 thow since his mom is in the hospital. I've recently broken up with a Scorpion man. Sorry to say that but then and only then do you get treated the best. I believe that when he withdraws like this and possibilities one, two, and three have been ruled out, it says a lot about his confidence in the relationship. He will make you feel like you are the only one for him, but this is only a ploy to make you do what he wants. he ask my fav music, random question like kiss ot hug? The Venus/Jupiter link encourages you to look again at an old situation. But when I called him, I said that this wasn't fair that he was making the decision alone and that we need to talk so he needs to come talk to me and he responded IMMEDIATELY with 'OK!'. We have flirted on and off throughout the last few years but never anything serious because we both have been in relationships. You have to understand that Scorpios are intense. Most of time i have to think before making a friend with any other boy. I've never commented on any article ever like this but I need advice before I approach him about this. I want to add he is younger than me in 6 years, he is 29. If a Scorpio man likes you, you can glimpse his longing for you when you lock eyes with him. I can see he has read my message as well. They are not brave or fearless in some areas such as walking away from someone who adores them. Scorpio intuits the sensitivity behind the facade and becomes intrigued. I know he read some of my emails because one of the emails I was asking him to send me my stuff from his place and I got a message from FedEx that he sent my stuff. I have since been on a roller coaster ride and now haven't gotten a text or call for 6 weeks. He . Also with some women I have a great attraction but is not always about sex, but companionship, frienship. 1. I'm going through the same crap. What should I be doing when he is acting cold? Mine always seems to have no time for me . . I couldn't understand this guy for the life of me but I was really falling for him because of it. If a Scorpio man suddenly disappears with no explanation, he could just not be interested in you. All is forgiven; the dog can tell the difference between a purposefully placed foot and an accidental injury. I am hoping he will talk to me soon. Then i felt it got really cold, and then every once in a while he starts texting me, and acting like he's really into me again. I'm an aquarius, and i really don't like to be vulnerable and put myself out there. Sarah, he might come back, depending if he loves you and realizes he made a mistake. They hone in on a project and become very obsessed. I always have a second thought about our relationship. I have a ton of gifts I have bought weeks before the break up for he, his daughter etc.. "I care for you, but I cant give this relationship what it needs" You will be fine. Help he is turturing me with mind and body. i asked him if ive done anything wrong he said that hE is just busy at work but im getting paranoid coZ he is not acting usual.im getting crazy now.. :(. Just checked my words . Also do you think he will come back? Opt for places that give you space to talk one-on-one. Hopefully, now he can apologize, or at the very least stop ignoring you. I am currently being extremely patient with a Scorpio who is going through some tough times. I don't know why he begs to be with me then leaves. It might seem like everything's fine when your Scorpio suddenly turns on you, leaving you feeling attacked for no reason. We love each other so much, there is such Trust between us. I understand that pisces men need their space but if you think he's cheating on you, he probably is. If a person born with this sun sign is taking the time to look after you or getting involved with your problems, then you are part of their inner circle. Him and I were only in a friend's with benefits thing for over a year. we met online and been seeing each other for a month already. I have been talking to a Scorpio man online for 4 years. He said "I am going to cause you stress, you will cause me stress" if we cant do that then we cant do this. We have had a serious connection and am amazing attraction together. He tells me im the one but when he starts getting tired he gives me confidence and reassurence with words that don't feel like a lie. This is extremely accurate for my male best friend who is a Scorpio! The Arena Media Brands, LLC and respective content providers to this website may receive compensation for some links to products and services on this website. Sometimes a hug and affection is of more value than sexual relations. Every day & night he would text me or calling and today nothing. The sun is currently in your 5th house which is the part of your chart which is all about having fun, it's about romance, and creativity, and children, your own or someone else is. I woke up the next day with him just going off his nut and blocking me on his facebok. An Aquarius man can be very charming, but don't be fooled by his act. We have had periods of intense sexual conversation and then we lose contact for weeks to months, then one of us will reappear. He's Angry If a Scorpio man acts like he doesn't care, he could be angry. I went crazy over him, and he seemed to go crazy over me too, and even wanted to make plans for the next meetup before even leaving each other. A few years later, you accidentally step on the dog's tail. Finish that house project you've been putting off, take yourself on a museum date, or enjoy a nice long walk. If he completely stops communicating, he may have decided to cut all strings and end it. I mean we have made so many plans. Even i get scared of me. I have even called him out on his silence. But you need to remember that he needs to show the same concern for you. I told him many times I wasn't a good communicator but he said that's okay. 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